Can’t Choose a Wedding Dress? Easy Ways to Decide


Deciding between a few wedding dresses can be tough but it’s nothing to be embarrassed about. And you are not alone! It is something that happens to many brides. So, now I will give you some tips on how to make a confident decision.

Remember Your Initial Reaction

You felt like you were stepping into a magical world when you saw the wedding dresses for the first time. For one moment, you imagined yourself in each dress. How did that make you feel? Happy, excited, or maybe a bit surprised? Think back to that moment. Well, particularly those first emotions or thoughts that popped into your mind are the ones that will guide you to the perfect wedding dress.

Wedding dress – Cascais, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Check Comfort and Movement

In order to choose the right dress, think about how comfortable they are. In the meantime, imagine yourself in each dress moving around. Pay attention to how easy it is to move your arms and legs. Obviously, you’ll want a dress that lets you hug your loved ones and dance freely without feeling tight. For this reason, go for the one that lets you move smoothly and feels cosy. It’s likely the best pick for you!

Quinta A Lendária, Venue | Barreiro, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings
Moinho da Praia, Venue | Samouco, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Visualise Your Wedding Style

When you’re trying to decide between two wedding dresses, think about the kind of wedding you really want. Consider where you’ll be getting married, how fancy it’s going to be, and the overall vibe you want everyone to feel. Your dress should go well with the feel of your wedding day, so choose the one that matches your personal style and the kind of celebration you’re dreaming of.

Carvoeiro Beach Photoshoot | Algarve, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings
Quinta do Careto, Venue | Beja, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Ask For Advice

Seeking advice can bring clarity to your decision process. Ask a close friend or family member whose opinion you value for help. Share your thoughts, what you like about each dress, and also listen to what they think. As a matter of fact, sometimes other people can give good advice and help you choose the dress that makes you happiest.

Casa do Sembrano | Beja, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings
Palmela, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Think About Accessories

Consider which accessories you will be using with each dress, for example veils, jewellery or shoes. Some dresses look better with certain accessories, making your bridal look even more beautiful. In fact, you can imagine yourself with these accessories on each dress and see which one makes you feel more like the bride you want to be.

Wedding accessories | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings
Wedding accessories | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Keep Budget in Mind

If money is a concern, remember to think about it. While the dresses may be beautiful, choosing the one that fits your budget keeps your wedding planning stress free and makes you feel great without spending too much. Also, look at the cost of any changes or extra accessories each dress might need. That might help you decide which one to go for.

Imagine Your Big Day

Imagine your big day while you are standing in front of your lovely wedding dresses. Then close your eyes and see yourself walking down the aisle with confidence, knowing you look gorgeous. As you stand at this crossroads, think about the emotions of your loved ones. Let your heart choose the dress that makes your dreams come true.

Quinta Pinhal das Confreirias, Venue | Almargem do Bispo, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Sleep on It

It can be a difficult task to choose between your favourite wedding dresses. If you’re not sure, then give yourself some time to decide. Sleep on it and see how you feel the next day. While you rest, imagine each dress in your dreams. Think about waking up on your wedding day. Which dress makes you feel happy and excited?  Let your feelings settle overnight. When you wake up, you might just know which dress is perfect for you.

Trust Your Feelings

You need to trust your feelings because they will show you which dress will make you happy and confident on your big day. Furthermore, your wedding dress is not just clothes, it’s a part of you and your love story. Trust how excited and beautiful each dress makes you feel. Be confident in your feelings and go with the dress that feels right.

Palmela, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

There’s no wrong choice here. Sometimes, the better option is to go back to the beginning. And by this, I mean, go back to the day you started looking for dresses, and follow these tips to find the perfect wedding dress. Who knows if you might not find the answer here?

On the other hand, if you have already chosen a wedding dress but are still having second thoughts and asking yourself constantly, “Have I picked the right wedding dress?”, don’t worry. It happens! Here is what you can do:

Take a little break and remember why you picked the dress in the first place. What did you like about it?

Figure out your concerns by identifying why you are unsure. Is it about how it looks, feels, or matches your vision? Understanding your concerns is the first step to finding a solution.

Quinta Pinhal das Confreirias, Venue | Almargem do Bispo, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Another thing you can do is go back to the store and try the dress on again. Seeing yourself in it might help you clarify your feelings. You can also look at other dresses. Looking at different dresses can help you feel sure about your choice or show that you actually like a different style. And then, discuss your doubts with the consultants at the bridal shop. They can help you with changes if you need them.

Share your feelings with your close friends or family. They might offer helpful insights.

Palmela, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Remember your dream wedding. Does the dress fit that dream? If yes, it might be the one. If you still feel a connection, trust that feeling. Your intuition knows best.

Finally, be kind to yourself. It’s normal to have doubts during this process. Your wedding dress should make you happy and confident. If you’re still not sure after trying and thinking, look at these tips that will help you in these situations. The most important thing is that you feel amazing as you walk down the aisle.

Quinta da Suratesta, Venue | Beja, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings
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Pedro Cruz

Wedding photographer and videographer from Lisbon, Portugal. Here is Pedro Cruz's short bio.

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