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Quinta das Riscas, Venue | Montijo, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings The night before your wedding is a very special time. You feel excited, a bit nervous, and full of happy expectations. Knowing how to spend this time can make a big difference in how you feel on your wedding day. Let's talk about some simple, yet effective things that the bride and groom can do the night before their big day. Double-check with Your Wedding Team A second check can save you from any last-minute issues and make you feel sure that everything is going smoothly. It’s your final opportunity to make sure everyone is on the same page, so you can relax knowing everything is on track for your special day. Take a moment to talk to your wedding planner or anyone else who's helping. They can make sure all the plans are ready and going well. Also, talk to your wedding vendors such as the florist, photographer or caterer, to confirm everything is in place. Confirm times, addresses and any special requests you have made. Prepare Vendor Payments or Tips Getting the payments or tips ready for the vendors is an important job to do the night before your wedding. It is all about saying thank you to the people who are working hard to make your day perfect. Make a list of all vendors you have to pay or need to tip. This might include your caterer, photographer, DJ or band, florist, and anyone else you have hired. Get envelopes for each vendor and label them clearly with their names. This keeps everything in order so that no one is left out and gets the right payment or tip. Confirm with each vendor the final amounts to prevent any surprises at the end of the night. Pick a friend or family member you trust to help with payments and tips at your wedding. They can make sure the vendors get the envelopes at the right time, so you can relax about it. Put a little thank-you note in each envelope. It’s a simple way to show how much you appreciate their hard work and help on your big day. Spend Time with Loved Ones The night before your wedding is a perfect time to be with all the people who have always been by your side. It will make you feel strong and at peace to have them with you on this day. Whether it's with your family, best friends or even your pets, is a great idea to make you feel better when you're feeling a little nervous. Get together with your family for a nice dinner. Share stories, laugh, and enjoy these times before the big day. Your family loves you and wants to see you happy, so let them support you. Spend quality time with your best friends, whether in person or over a video call. Their smiles and nice words feel like a big, cosy hug before your special day. If you have a pet, spend some quiet time with them. Pets have a special way of calming us down and making us feel loved. A cuddle with your furry friend can be just what you need to relax. Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings Practice Vows When you say your vows in front of everyone, you want them to come from the heart. Practising can help you feel better and more comfortable. It helps you remember your words and how you want to say them. Choose a quiet spot where you won’t be interrupted. It could be in your room, outside under the stars, or anywhere you feel relaxed. Read your vows out loud. This way, you can hear how they sound and make any changes if needed. Pay attention to how you feel when you say your vows. Are they touching your heart? Are they saying what you truly mean? Adjust them to make sure they capture your feelings perfectly. It can also help if you practice in front of a mirror, so you have an idea of your facial expressions and movements. It may feel a bit silly initially, but practice makes perfect. Nerves can make you speak quickly. Practice speaking slowly and clearly so that your words are heard and felt by everyone. Quinta das Riscas, Venue | Montijo, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings Write a Love Message The morning of your wedding can be busy and full of emotions, so getting a loving message from your partner can feel really comforting and touching. You don’t need to write a long letter. A short, sweet message can mean a lot. Tell your partner how much they mean to you. Share your feelings and let them know how excited you are to marry them. Mention a few special moments you’ve shared. This could be the day you met, your first date, or a memorable trip. You can also write about your hopes and dreams for your future together. Let your partner know how happy you are to start this new chapter. Leave a message for your partner where they'll easily find it, like with their wedding outfit or on their pillow. If you’re exchanging gifts on the morning of the wedding, tuck the note inside the gift box. You can also ask a close friend or family member to hand-deliver the note on the morning of the wedding. Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings Put Any Bags You Need in The Car Get your bags ready and put them in the car. That way, you won't worry about forgetting anything important when the morning gets busy. Make sure both you and your partner know what’s packed and where everything is. This will help you not get confused on the wedding day. Always remember your phone charger, money, make-up, comfy shoes and personal items, for example, your medicine, tissues or hygiene products. It’s a good idea to have an emergency kit too. Put in a stain remover, a little sewing kit, safety pins, band-aids, medicine for pain, and anything else you might need for quick fixes. You can also include important documents, such as your wedding license, vendor contracts and contact information. It’s better to have them and not need them than the other way around. If you’re staying somewhere other than your home on your wedding night, pack an overnight bag with pyjamas, toiletries, and a change of clothes for the next day. This will make your first morning as a married couple smooth and stress-free. If you have gifts or cards for your bridal party, make sure they are packed and ready to go. Also, don't forget to get your bags packed for the honeymoon as well! If you’re leaving for your honeymoon directly from the wedding, make sure you have a plan for your wedding attire. Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings Practice Walking in Your Shoes Don't wear a pair of brand-new shoes just for your wedding straight out of the box. Even if your shoes fit perfectly, they might feel stiff or strange if you haven't worn them before and if they are different from what you normally wear. Spend some time walking around your home in your wedding shoes. This helps them feel more comfortable and stops blisters from forming. If you can, try them out on different surfaces such as carpet, hardwood floors and even outside, so you get used to the way they feel. Practice standing and seating. This will help you understand how the shoes will support you throughout the day. If you plan on dancing at your wedding, try a few dance steps in your shoes. This will make you feel more confident and stop any unexpected problems during your first dance. Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings Relax Relax the night before your wedding. It helps you feel less worried and makes sure you wake up all happy and ready to enjoy your big day! There are a few different ways you can try to relax: You can take a nice warm bath or shower. The hot water helps release the tension in your muscles and makes you calm down. Create a playlist with your favourite relaxing songs. Music has a way of easing stress and putting you in a positive mood. Breathe in and out slowly. Doing this simple action slows your heart rate and allows your muscles to relax. Simple yoga stretches make your body and mind feel good. Watch a movie that makes you smile and relax. Pick up a book or magazine that isn’t about weddings or planning. Escaping into a good story can distract your mind in a good way. Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings Eat a Light Dinner The night before your wedding stay away from foods that are heavy, greasy, or spicy. These kinds of foods can upset your tummy, cause heartburn, or make you feel bloated, which you don't want to deal with on your special day. But if you have a healthy, balanced, and light dinner, it can make you feel good! Choose foods that you know are tummy-friendly and won't make you feel too full or uncomfortable. Some examples are grilled chicken or fish, vegetable stir-fry, quinoa or brown rice, soup and salad. Try not to eat fried foods, spicy dishes, or very sugary treats. Stay Hydrated Drinking enough water keeps your body happy and healthy. Your energy will be boosted, your skin will radiate, and you'll have more concentration. When it comes to your special day, the last thing you want is headaches, tiredness or feeling grumpy. Any of those could result from not getting enough water. While you may want to mark the night before your wedding with a couple of drinks and keep energized with coffee, it is better to avoid them. Caffeine can make you jittery or dehydrated, while alcohol may interrupt your sleep and leave you feeling tired in the morning. A cup of tea or a glass of wine with dinner is fine in moderation. Set an Alarm It's very important to wake up on time so your big day goes smoothly. When you're feeling excited and nervous, it's easy to forget this. First, determine when you need to wake up. To make this decision, think about how much time you need to get dressed, eat breakfast, and go to your wedding venue. It's also a good idea to give yourself some extra time. You never know when something unexpected might come up. For example, traffic or needing a little more time for your hair and makeup. If you're a heavy sleeper or you're worried about oversleeping, set more than one alarm. It's better to be safe than sorry! Make sure the alarm volume is loud enough to wake you up, but not so loud that it startles you awake. After you have set multiple alarms and are sure you're prepared, the last step is to focus on getting a good rest. Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings Go to Bed Early Getting a full eight hours of sleep will make a big difference in how you feel on your big day. Weddings are exciting but can also be exhausting. You want to be at your best, both mentally and physically. When well-rested, you are more likely to feel calm, happy, and ready to enjoy every moment. Not getting enough sleep can make you feel grumpy, anxious, and tired. Not the way you want to feel on such a special day. Make your bedroom a peaceful haven. Spend the hour before bed doing relaxing activities. Avoid phones, tablets, and TVs since they can keep you awake. Instead, read a book, listen to calming music, or do some gentle stretching. Separate or together? One of the big decisions you'll need to make is whether to spend the night before your wedding together or apart. Many couples like to spend the night before their wedding apart. They believe this builds excitement and anticipation for their big day. The truth is there's no right or wrong answer here. It really comes down to what feels right for both of you. Spending the Night Apart Choosing to spend the night apart doesn't mean you love each other any less. Many couples opt to spend the night before a wedding apart for a few reasons: Tradition: It's a classic way to honour the wedding customs that have been celebrated for generations. That first look on your wedding day can be a moment that makes you feel more connected with your partner. Anticipation: Sometimes it can be more exciting to be apart. You know the saying, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." When you finally see each other at the ceremony, it can make that moment feel even more magical. Me time: The night before your wedding is a great time to focus on you! Spending a little time apart from your partner the night before can be refreshing. That way, you can concentrate on what you are feeling with a clear mind. It prepares you mentally for the big day that's coming soon. Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings Spending the Night Together On the other hand, some couples prefer to spend the night before a wedding together for these reasons: Comfort: It is very comforting to have your partner with you the night before your wedding. It helps you forget some of the pre-wedding jitters. After all, your partner is your best friend and the person who knows how to calm you down. Creating Memories: You have a chance to create new memories with your partner the night before your wedding. You can have a peaceful dinner, watch a movie, or maybe talk about your journey together and your plans. Practical Reasons: Sometimes, staying together just makes sense logistically. If you are travelling to your wedding venue or have early morning preparations, being together can simplify things and ensure you both get a good night’s sleep. Making the Decision In the end, it's up to you. Think about what feels right for both of you. Have an open conversation about your feelings and preferences. Whether you choose to stay together or apart, what matters most is that both of you feel happy with whatever you decide. After all, this is the start of your new life together, and it's important to start it in a great way. Igreja da Divina Misericordia das Patameiras, Church | Odivelas, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings Conclusion The night before your wedding you can relax, reflect, and prepare for the big day. Follow these simple tips to help you feel calm and wake up fresh and ready to enjoy one of the happiest days of your life. The most important thing is to think about the love you share with your partner and the happiness of starting your new life together. I am so grateful that you came on this journey with me. If you liked what you read and are interested in more of my work, please check my portfolio here. I want to know what you think. Thank you very much for your valuable support! This article was originally published on Pediphotofilm.com. If it is now published on any other site, it was done without permission from the copyright owner.

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