How To Make Your Wedding Day Special: Tips For Grooms


Your wedding day is one of the most significant moments of your life, and as the groom, you have an important role in making it special. From getting ready to say ‘I do’, every moment counts. In this guide, I will share simple tips to help you make your wedding day unforgettable. Whether you want to add personal touches, support your partner, or just make the day super memorable, I have got you covered. Let’s make your big day special!

Santuário de Nossa Senhora de Cabo Espichel, Church | Sesimbra, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Get Plenty Of Rest

It’s really important to make sure you get plenty of sleep. Even though you might be super excited or nervous, getting enough rest is key. When you are well-rested, you will feel more energised and ready to enjoy every moment of your wedding day with your loved ones. So, try to relax and get some good sleep before the big day.

Sesimbra, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Eat A Good Breakfast

You should eat a healthy and satisfying morning meal because it helps you have the energy you need for the busy day ahead. Simple options like eggs with veggies, oatmeal with fruit and nuts, or avocado toast are great choices. You can also eat something meaningful, like your favourite childhood dish, making the morning even more special. Sharing breakfast with close friends or family adds excitement and bonding before the wedding.

Stay Hydrated

Don’t forget to drink enough water because it it’s super important for staying energised and feeling good. Start by drinking a big glass of water when you wake up, and keep sipping on water throughout the day. Try to snack on fruits like watermelon and strawberries too, since they are full of water and keep you hydrated.

Almada, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Get A Shave

Looking neat not only makes you feel good but also leaves a strong impression on everyone. Taking time for yourself can make your wedding day even better. Besides making you look good, getting a shave can also help you relax, calm down and get ready for the exciting day ahead.

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Double Check Your Suit And Accessories

Make sure your suit or tuxedo is clean, pressed, and ready to go. Double check that you have all the stuff you need, such as your shoes, watch, belt, tie, cufflinks, and socks. Consider having a backup outfit on hand just in case of any last-minute mishaps.

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Groom Accessories | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Learn How To Tie Your Tie

When you know how to do it yourself, you can make sure your tie looks just right. It’s a small thing, but it makes a big difference. Plus, you won’t need to ask anyone else for help, which is pretty cool.

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Take A Moment With Your Parents

Taking a moment with your parents before your wedding is important. They have been with you through everything and helped you become who you are. It’s a chance to thank them for their love and support. So, in the middle of all the planning, don’t forget to stop and spend time with your parents. It will make your wedding day even more special and bring you close together.

Quinta do Careto, Venue | Beja, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Choose Your Best Man Wisely

Your best man is like your cheerleader, there to keep you calm and happy before and during the wedding. They need to be someone you can trust to get stuff done, like planning the bachelor party and handling any last minute issues. Your best man is a symbol of your friendship, so it’s important to choose someone who knows you well and shares your values.

Quinta do David, Venue | Palmela, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Arrive Early

Arriving early at your wedding ceremony shows that you respect everyone, like your partner and guests. Being on time also helps you feel more relaxed and ready for the big moment. Plus, it gives you a chance to deal with any last-minute situation without stress.

Quinta do David, Venue | Palmela, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Take A Moment To Breathe

Before the ceremony starts, take a few deep breaths and remind yourself to enjoy the moment. It helps calm any nerves and lets you focus on what’s happening. This is a special day that you will want to remember for the rest of your life.

Quinta do Careto, Venue | Beja, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Say “I Love You”

Take every opportunity to tell your partner you love them whenever you can. You can say it in your vows, when you are alone together, or even just with a little hug or smile.

Quinta do David, Venue | Palmela, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Personalise Your Vows

When you personalise your vows, you are making them unique and special, with your thoughts and feelings. It’s a way for you to show your love and commitment in your own words, which makes the ceremony more intimate and meaningful. Share them during the wedding to make it super special.

Quinta das Riscas, Venue | Montijo, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Plan A Surprise

A surprise can be something simple that your partner won’t expect. Maybe it’s a sweet letter, a special song, or a fun dance. This will make your wedding even more fun and unforgettable.

Quinta Pinhal das Confreirias, Venue | Almargem do Bispo, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Interact With Guests

During the day, try to be there and spend time with your guests. Say hi, chat with them, and have fun together. Don’t worry too much or let other things bother you. Just enjoy the happy moments.

Moinho da Praia, Venue | Samouco, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Take Lots Of Pictures

Taking lots of pictures on your wedding day is important to remember all the happy moments. Whether it’s fun or posed pictures with friends, family and the bride, every photo helps tell the story of the day, making it memorable.

Quinta da Suratesta, Venue | Beja, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Make A Special Drink

Work with the bartender to make a special drink for your wedding. Give it a fun name that tells a bit about your love story. Then, serve it to your guests. They will love it!

Almada, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

Share A Secret Signal

You can create a secret sign or gesture with your partner to secretly communicate during the day. It adds fun and closeness to your relationship, even when things get busy.

Have Fun

Remember to have fun at your wedding! Take in all the love and joy around you, and make memories with your partner, family and friends that will last a lifetime. It only happens once, so let loose, dance, and enjoy every minute of it.

Sesimbra Natura Park, Venue | Sesimbra, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings
Sesimbra Natura Park, Venue | Sesimbra, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings
Quinta do Careto, Venue | Beja, Portugal | Photo by PEDIPortugal Weddings

In summary, as a groom, you can make your wedding day extra special by following these simple tips. Adding your personal touch can turn an ordinary day into something extraordinary, creating memories that will last forever. So, embrace these ideas and enjoy a day filled with love, happiness, and unforgettable moments with your partner.

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